So apartment life has been pretty okay for the most part. What I have learned is that people like to gossip because they have nothing else better to do with there lives. I always saw my self living down town because it was for the most part more LGBT friendly. And as much as you think you may pass as the opposite gender there will always be the few misinformed people who will call you a “He-She”. Of course those words were never spoke to my face and it came from a word of mouth by a few people. Who brought it to my attention. My only response to it was there misinformed and if they ever have anything else to say they can say it to my face so I can knock them the fuck out. Of course violence is not the answer but I bet it would feel really good to do non the less. Id most likely tell them to stick it where the sun don’t shine.
The small few that have spoken to others about me I honestly have no use for. And to be even more honest I don’t care for 95% of the people who I’ve come in contact with except for a very small number of people. Then there are the ones your just polite too even if you don’t personally like them. The vibe I get from some people are questionable of course. And then there are the few that you like and actually one lady I’m friends with and have gone shopping with and hung out. Another lady is funny and she’s my gardening buddy.
But for the most part I keep to my self and have learned share less not more with people. The less things you share with people the less shit people will spread when it comes to apartment building life. And the funny thing is the comment a small number of people have made they have never spoke to me personally before. It’s just I honestly don’t know what it is misinformed bigots no idea. All I do know is I don’t think about it, you can’t worry about what others think about you because if you do you can’t enjoy life. And they can think whatever the hell they want too I don’t give two shits I have my own life to live it’s like that saying “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”. Like period but whatever. There will always be haters just can’t let those haters get to you.
Hope everyone is doing well.
Over & Out