I haven’t had many Ex’s in fact I can pretty much count how many boyfriends I have had and it’s under 10. Most have been short-term but I have had like two long-term relationships, I’m talking over a year. Moving on the first guy I dated for more than a year it ended not that great but fast forward a handful of years and we’re friends on Facebook. We spoke about going for coffee one of these days.
The second ex of mine we broke up April of 2015. He helped me move into my apartment and can be seen in my first apartment tour video on YouTube. As well in a few blog posts on my blog here. Anyways we became friends after breaking up, it was hard and difficult and we have hung out a few times. Before I go further one of his closest friends had punked him off after getting back with her ex. She ignored him and he hated it. But since him getting a new gf he’s basically punked me off as well and I’m the one always reaching out to him saying hello or whatever.
We went to the movies in Jan as friends but I don’t think I should be the one always reaching out. Sadly I find my self doing just that to people in general. It bugs the crap out of me!. Also Jan 20th is the last time we spoke. Anyways I think it’s possible to be friends with an ex. But as I recently sent him a text saying he hated how his friend punked him off and that its funny how the cards play out. Meaning he’s done exactly that to me.
I think it’s time I close that chapter altogether. I know for a full fact he’s not that busy that he can’t say hi after all isn’t texting supposed to be quick and easy. It’s not like he’s not getting my texts. We agreed we would always be friends from the get go but obviously that’s not the case anymore. And you know what that’s totally fine with me.
Sometimes you just have to move on